New Year’s Resolutions are one of the most over-saturated and over-used
topics which we think about during the time between November and February. But the conventional way of thinking about
New Year’s Resolutions isn’t the best way.
For example, people tend to think about what they should be doing not
what they want to do, and they usually look at their resolutions as goals,
which makes their life seem like an infinite loop of goal-after-goal
dilemma. Furthermore, most people follow
what others are doing, rather than doing something new, and almost everyone
waits until New Year’s ‘Eve to start making changes, instead of starting at any
random day of the year. Researchers
found that over a third of resolutions don't make it to February, and three-quarters
of remaining plans are canceled before March, and a study done on New Year’s
Resolutions shows that only 8% of goals are 100% achieved. So it seems like people are doing something
wrong here…
Now my
resolutions for this year are as follows: (As of January 2017)
- Gain 15Kg (33lbs) of weight, or mass for you physicists out there, especially you Ms. Dana… Because, you know, I’m under-weight.
- Eliminate all problems that I have between my ex-girlfriend and I.
- Change my habit of rushing everything small and start to think deeply into everything, even if it wasn’t that big.
Now the first one needs work; I just need to try to enjoy food a
bit more, so I can get it done. Now you
might say that the second resolution is really hard, but now I can call that
done before I even write this. Thanks to an apology e-mail [So now I can call
her my ex-ex-girlfriend/ girlfriend! ;-) :-P]. The
problem lies in the third resolution, which is” god damn terrifying.” -Austin,
THE SCIENCE, Game Theory
Now I want to change this because now that I'm 3 years away from being independent,
I’ll start making decisions of my own; therefore, I want everything to be 100%
perfect. And when I mean 100%, I MEAN
100%! So as you can see from my use of upper-case letters I’m a perfectionist,
so by changing that habit, I can change my brain-farts to brain-SMARTS! Now I have struggled because of this problem
a lot in the past… Stuff kept happening like
losing 33052.19 chess games because of me losing my queen foolishly, lots of
deaths and defeats in lots of video games like Red Alert 2: Yuri’s Revenge and
War blade, and losing my ex-ex-girlfriend (And that includes getting her back,
of course). So I want to change this horrible
habit of mine by simply trying to remember to think, how ironic… Believe it or not that the only part, for now
at least. I can ‘Achieve’ this by telling
others to remind me to think, or maybe keep something on me to remind me, like
a smartphone cover or something like that.
If I work hard enough to get out of rushing, my life would be a whole
ton easier, and it will save me from getting my brains out of my head.
You’ll be
seeing a follow-up in May to show you my success, so look forward for that.
Mic drops {Talafhah
is out}